How to win an argument with your parents (Weirdest Conversation)

Requesting a child to accomplish any task can at times become very troubling.

Both the parent and the child become involved in a stressful argument to prove their standpoints. 

Tackling a child who possesses a strong will can be undoubtedly tricky, if not painful.

But, on the bright side, these kids carry their personal leadership qualities with their capabilities to make their own decisions all by themselves.

As a personality trait, these children try to think “outside-the-box”, which generally leads them to an argument. 

During an argument, human emotions take control of the general reasoning capabilities.

It becomes difficult to see clearly and to make the appropriate choice.

Quit playing the “blame game."

Parents, in general, have an unintentional tendency to blame the child rather than his/her behavior.

A "personality" always differs from its "behavior".

Therefore, parents must be wise and careful in making such comments to their children, which can hurt them.

It appears to the children that their parents are seeking out their flaws with a personalized attack.

Parents should take care of the way they speak to their kids.

Children will obey if they feel safe and if their instructor does not verbally strike them.

Dragging in "historical events" into a "present timeline" situation never helps.

Parents need to show their children the errors they are doing “now” rather than imposing their “past sins” on them.

The child must obtain a clear understanding of the parents' demands to accomplish “right now”.

Verbal pressure pushes your child away

Demanding a child to make their choice by verbal force does not help them in any way.

For instance, in the case of a child having chocolate before his/her sibling, parents demand the child to share it with that sibling.

They begin to question the child's love toward the sibling concerning his/her behavioral actions.

The show of temporary negligence in love does not end up in permanent enmity.

Teaching the child about the needs and benefits of sharing can help them. 

Parents as adults need to clarify their motives and intentions to their children up to the necessary level.

Adult parents are greater in age as they are experienced and mature, but their children are not.

Therefore, their kids need to understand that their parents' experience has built them the way they are.

It has bestowed on them the necessary knowledge that they lack in their children.

Therefore, children need to listen to their parents, which also contributes to developing their rationality. 

Complete clarity in communication between the parents and their children

Parents and children need to communicate with each other through sound clarity.

Parents must be more compassionate than being judgmental of their children.

Both of them must spend sufficient time with each other to better know and understand one another.

They must communicate and settle their issues with one another.

Prioritizing the children's desires now and then can enable them to do so to you as well.